Thursday 17/08/2017

Aug. 17th, 2017 08:01 am
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1) I heard the violin again on my way to work in the morning. 

2) Yum yoghurt with fruit for breakfast.

3) Really easy dinner for a really busy evening... House hunting while training season starts again, is not fun...
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DEAR MISS MANNERS: My stepfather’s grandson’s wedding is black-tie optional, and my stepfather’s children are renting him a tux. My mom, who is 90, thought she would wear a nice pants outfit with a dressy jacket, and is resistant to buying something new. She has been through a lot this year (treatment for lymphoma, cancer surgery, and she recently fell and broke her pelvis, so she is in a lot of pain).

I and my three sisters (my mom’s only children) live on the opposite coast, but we are now being pressured by the mother of the groom (my stepfather’s daughter) and my stepfather to see that she is outfitted appropriately -- not just for the wedding, but also for the rehearsal dinner (cocktail attire) and the wedding breakfast to be held the day after the wedding.

They have also expressed concerns about the shoes my mother prefers (very safe, comfortable, but not at all dressy). My sister even heard my stepfather tell her that if she doesn’t get something new to wear, she can stay home and not attend the wedding or other events.

My mother doesn’t stand up for herself, unfortunately. Two of us will be traveling to see her soon, and plan to take her shopping. My sister is even purchasing a few things for my mom that she will bring with her, in the hopes that maybe something will fit and work for this event.

Personally, I think it is extremely superficial of them to dictate what she wears (especially since the wedding is six months from now!). If it were me, I would just be thrilled they are both well enough to attend, regardless of how they are dressed.

Is my mother wrong to resist the request to buy something more formal? Or should the step-family back off?

GENTLE READER: What happened to the “optional” part?

While Miss Manners always advocates dressing properly for the occasion -- and generally abhors “optional,” as it just invites chaos -- the particulars of your mother’s dress seem to be unduly fixated upon here. There is certainly a lot of undue angst being put into this poor woman’s wardrobe that seemingly requires three separate outfits and uncomfortable, possibly dangerous, shoes.

If your mother can reasonably be jollied into the shopping expedition or accepts one of your sister’s choices for one new outfit, fine. But if not, please talk to your stepfather about “backing off.” Surely this cannot really be worth all of this fuss.

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Aug. 16th, 2017 07:05 pm
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Welcome Blanket

Aug. 16th, 2017 03:09 pm
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"A welcome blanket is traditionally created to lovingly mark the arrival of a new person into the world. In the Welcome Blanket project, each handmade blanket is a physical manifestation of this celebration of new refugees and other immigrants: “Welcome to the United States and your new life here! We are so glad you have arrived.”"

The Smart Museum of Art of Chicago is asking for donations of handmade blankets (40"x40") to welcome families coming to our country (the USA), but also to try and make a GIANT blanket equal to the size of the proposed wall between us and Mexico. As a way to protest the wall.

The museum is going to display the blankets (and notes if you include one) from now until December when the blankets will be delivered to families. The deadline to send blankets to the museum is November 4.

https://www.welcomeblanket.org

Here's the start of my blanket!
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Wednesday 16/08/2017

Aug. 16th, 2017 08:12 am
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1) Fresh clean bedlinen.

2) Lots of soup and salad for lunch. And yum easy leftovers for this evening.

3) Tea

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Aug. 15th, 2017 07:02 pm
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Volunteer social tread #70

Aug. 16th, 2017 12:02 am
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I'm enjoying having a working keyboard on my laptop again.

What have you been up to?

Question thread #55

Aug. 15th, 2017 11:58 pm
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It's time for another question thread!

The rules:

- You may ask any dev-related question you have in a comment. (It doesn't even need to be about Dreamwidth, although if it involves a language/library/framework/database Dreamwidth doesn't use, you will probably get answers pointing that out and suggesting a better place to ask.)
- You may also answer any question, using the guidelines given in To Answer, Or Not To Answer and in this comment thread.

Prompt for 2017-08-15

Aug. 15th, 2017 11:18 pm
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Today's prompt is 'seeing it all'.

Tuesday 15/08/2017

Aug. 15th, 2017 09:02 am
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1) Super long weekend! Friday, yesterday and today no work! :-D

2) Lazy day with some chores before noon. And then a cup of tea and a book and/or a movie :-) Also, going to organize my laptop and photo's.

3) Boyfriend's mother and my parents are coming over for dinner to celebrate Mother's Day

Prompt for 2017-08-14

Aug. 14th, 2017 11:16 pm
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Today's prompt is "we do what we can".

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