p and i have an agreement that if one of us needs to express tantrumness we can tell the other..and sometimes just be able to say that, or to cry hard, or to yell (without triggering the other person) is enough to get out the stuff that wants stompyfeet. and even when it's not it does dial it down a bit, which is still helpful (for me, anywya, ymmv)
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Date: 2010-10-13 12:05 am (UTC)p and i have an agreement that if one of us needs to express tantrumness we can tell the other..and sometimes just be able to say that, or to cry hard, or to yell (without triggering the other person) is enough to get out the stuff that wants stompyfeet. and even when it's not it does dial it down a bit, which is still helpful (for me, anywya, ymmv)