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ysobelI AM OFFICIALLY ROOMMATE-FREE
...I suspect I'm free of a few other things (like Tupperware that we disagree on whom it belongs to and, randomly enough, a bag of tooth care goodies from my dentist) but right now I don't ducking care
Awkward Roommate of No-Fucks-Given is GONE
I don't remember how much I ranted here about her, but some highlights:
* she liked smoking sage. I made the mistake of saying yes when she asked if it was okay, because I assumed it was a "cleanser on moving in" one time thing; but she kept doing it, and it just smelled like burn to me, and no amount of "please don't burn sage" changed her behavior
* she liked having all the doors and windows open. Even with air conditioning (or heat) running. Even with me in bed and her in her room with the door closed. Even after the night some guy being chased crashed through our back fence and came through the yard. Granted, the screen door was closed so the pets couldn't get out, except for the time it was off track and Monkey got out in the yard and Loki was "missing" for hours (luckily in closet rather than outside).
* she would not even say hi or bye to me, let alone "I'll be back at ____" or whatever
* half her duties involved being here at night in case of emergency, but when I had problems I couldn't reach her (and she never did even follow up the next day with "sorry I missed you last night are you ok")
That's not everything, just some of the stuff
It's been really *weird* and I'm not sorry to see her go. And she was doing weird passive aggressive shit today like using the labeled "dish sponge" for washing a bucket from outside.
Also, randomly, a day or so before I sent her the "This isn't working (you're fired)" email, she mumbled something about "I'm leaving next week" on her way out the door, and it wasn't clear whether she meant leaving for Christmas break or leaving entirely; I sent her the email and never got any response, so I was going to send her a text message to make sure she saw it; and my mom (who's been staying here since I got sick) woke me up at 8:30 saying roommate was packing to leave. Roommate claims she told me. I still maintain that it wasn't at all clear when, let alone for how long. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Not my ducking business any more.
...I suspect I'm free of a few other things (like Tupperware that we disagree on whom it belongs to and, randomly enough, a bag of tooth care goodies from my dentist) but right now I don't ducking care
Awkward Roommate of No-Fucks-Given is GONE
I don't remember how much I ranted here about her, but some highlights:
* she liked smoking sage. I made the mistake of saying yes when she asked if it was okay, because I assumed it was a "cleanser on moving in" one time thing; but she kept doing it, and it just smelled like burn to me, and no amount of "please don't burn sage" changed her behavior
* she liked having all the doors and windows open. Even with air conditioning (or heat) running. Even with me in bed and her in her room with the door closed. Even after the night some guy being chased crashed through our back fence and came through the yard. Granted, the screen door was closed so the pets couldn't get out, except for the time it was off track and Monkey got out in the yard and Loki was "missing" for hours (luckily in closet rather than outside).
* she would not even say hi or bye to me, let alone "I'll be back at ____" or whatever
* half her duties involved being here at night in case of emergency, but when I had problems I couldn't reach her (and she never did even follow up the next day with "sorry I missed you last night are you ok")
That's not everything, just some of the stuff
It's been really *weird* and I'm not sorry to see her go. And she was doing weird passive aggressive shit today like using the labeled "dish sponge" for washing a bucket from outside.
Also, randomly, a day or so before I sent her the "This isn't working (you're fired)" email, she mumbled something about "I'm leaving next week" on her way out the door, and it wasn't clear whether she meant leaving for Christmas break or leaving entirely; I sent her the email and never got any response, so I was going to send her a text message to make sure she saw it; and my mom (who's been staying here since I got sick) woke me up at 8:30 saying roommate was packing to leave. Roommate claims she told me. I still maintain that it wasn't at all clear when, let alone for how long. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Not my ducking business any more.
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Date: 2019-12-17 09:17 pm (UTC)I'm so happy to hear that someone who treats your life so carelessly is GONE GONE GONE.
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Date: 2019-12-18 04:12 am (UTC)There's a saying I ran across many years ago, and it has stuck with me; to wit: If you loan somebody $20 and never see them again, it was probably worth it.
Some Tupperware and dental floss seems cheap at the price. :D
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Date: 2019-12-29 12:50 am (UTC)